The program · Self-paced · Founding price £47
The Emotional Downshift program.
The free 2-minute check tells you which system is driving and which level it is running from. The program is everything behind that answer: the deeper checks that find why a feeling is not settling, the framework with its whys and studies, and the method worked step by step until you can run it yourself.
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How it fits together
Check. Understand. Move.
Start with the free 2-minute check on this site. It finds the system that is leading and the level it is running from, and hands you here.
The framework pages build the model from the ground up, so the result you got makes sense: why that system, why that level, and why the fix is different for each.
The deeper checks find why the feeling is not settling and leave you with a three-item weekly plan. The program then works the full method with you, step by step.
The framework
The model, built from the ground up.
No hand-waving. Every claim in the framework is referenced to the research it rests on, and it is written in plain English first, with the deeper science underneath for those who want it.
Start here · The foundation
Why it works
The whole model, step by step: the loop every living thing runs, feeling as a tag, the four systems and three levels, why thinking has a hard ceiling, and what completing the cycle actually means. With examples and the studies behind each step.
Read the frameworkTwo-minute explainer
Stress, trapped, low mood
Why stress is rarely just stress, why feeling trapped runs on the anger system, and how a stuck system quietly drains your drive into flatness. Three problems that are often one story at three points in time.
Read the explainerThe program · The deeper checks
Why isn't it settling?
You already know which feeling is leading; that is what the free check is for. These are the program’s diagnostic layer, and they ask the next question: whether the cycle is completing, what you do when it fires, and what you have left to complete it with. Each one ends with a read on your pattern and a three-item plan for the week. Open now while the program is in founding launch.
FEAR system · About 3 minutes
Anxiety: why it isn't settling
Whether your alarm is finishing, whether you are coping actively or passively, and whether the worry is pointed or diffuse, which changes the move that helps.
Take this checkRAGE system · About 3 minutes
Anger: why it isn't settling
Where the charge is going, whether the block in your way is removable, routable, or immovable, and what that means for the boundary you need.
Take this checkPANIC / GRIEF system · About 3 minutes
Grief and loss: why it isn't settling
Whether the loss is fresh, ambiguous, or reopened, and the kind of company it needs. Nothing here will tell you that you should be over it.
Take this checkSEEKING system · Drive & motivation
The drive & motivation companion
Not a distress check. When the wanting itself has gone quiet, this looks at what is sitting on your drive: fear of it going wrong, anger at what blocks it, or grief about what it costs.
About this checkArriving from the main check? Your result link carries your level across, so the deeper check will not re-ask what you have already answered. Coming in cold works too; you will get one extra question.
What's inside
The method, worked step by step.
The checks locate you on the map. The program walks you across it: eight modules in the order the nervous system actually changes, the deeper checks inside the module they belong to, and the book that started it all. Built to be used without me by the end; that is the point of it.
- Module 0 · OrientationThe lie you were told, the loop, the four messengers, the three depths. Your check result, placed on the map.
- Module 1 · The AlarmFear, dread, nerves. What it is for and how to work it at each depth. With the anxiety deep check.
- Module 2 · The FireAnger, frustration, feeling trapped. Neither explode it nor swallow it. With the anger deep check.
- Module 3 · The AcheGrief, loneliness, rejection. Then loss as a path across the whole map. With the grief deep check.
- Module 4 · The PullWhen drive goes quiet. Bringing it back, and why play is the mechanism. With the drive check.
- Module 5 · The master movesThe ceiling on thinking, finishing the cycle, when the threat is real and will not end soon.
- Module 6 · Going deeperThe voice in your head, feelings versus facts, the people around you, the false completion signal.
- Module 7 · The 14-day downshiftOne practice a day, five to ten minutes. The bridge from knowing to having.
- ToolkitSituation playbooks, the one-page cheat sheet, common questions, and every source.
Founding price
£47 £67
One payment. Founding price while the first modules are still landing; it goes to £67 after that. Access does not expire.
- All eight modules and the toolkit, on the site
- DOWNSHIFT, the book, as PDF and EPUB
- The anxiety, anger, grief and drive deep checks
- The three situation modules: loss, play, the false completion signal
- Every module added later, at no extra cost
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The book · DOWNSHIFT
Included, and yours to keep
The program's framework as one book you can read in an afternoon: the four feelings running your life, the three depths, and the method. Name the messenger, find the depth, then choose. Every module is built from it.
1:1 · Online · Available now
Work it with me
The fastest way through is still 1:1: bring your check result to a session and we work the depths in order. Fifty-minute sessions, with a free 25-minute intro to see if it fits.
Book the free introThis is regulation work, not therapy or medical care. The checks do not diagnose, and nothing here is medical advice. If a feeling has been with you most days for a few weeks, or you are in crisis, your GP or local crisis line is the right first call, and the program will still be here.
Not sure where to start?
Start with the 2-minute check.
It finds the system and the level for you, and points you at the right deeper check from your result.